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Hi my name is Bonnie Gortler. It is my pleasure to be here sharing my story with you. A multitalented individual, who believes in honesty, loyalty and perseverance to go with my never give up attitude, being responsible and accountable, is who I am. Losing family members and friends, including my Father in Law, my Mom and close friends to cancer, the shocking experiences have been challenges for me to overcome.

Sadness, anger, numbness, and not understanding why they were taken away from me were questions that I have asked over and over. Grieving internally for years not expressing myself, holding my feelings inside bottled up, as I entrenched myself in the work that I love.

As a stock market guru, responsible for others finances, their well being, and future is on my shoulders. The challenge of the market kept me thriving and alive on the outside but I was in pain on the inside as I would realize later on. I was fortunate to have a close family, my husband, and daughter beside me, as we would celebrate special occasions including birthdays, holidays where we enjoyed each other’s company together.

Then one day a tragedy occurred, without notice life changed unexpectedly. My mother-in-law all of a sudden was paralyzed, her muscles collapsed and she could only move her hands from side to side, speak, and nothing more. Most doctors, therapists, hospitals and rehab centers gave up on her, however she did not give up on herself. The courageous women that she is, her will to live, and never give up attitude, as she would fight for her life with every breath to survive.

The family and I made daily trips to hospitals and rehab centers, which took its toll on me as I became more depressed each day, as I watched my mother in law; almost die in front of my eyes. Her strength, her vibration I could feel and her eyes said it all. A reminder, life is short, live life to the fullest, YOU matter.

I received a postcard from an old friend, inviting me to a party, grudgingly not feeling like I deserve, I accepted, had some fun, and soon my life as an entrepreneur would begin. Little did I know at the time that this negative occurrence, would lead me to being exposed to a new world in November 07.

I tried wellness products, was introduced to a network marketing company, which lead me to starting my own home based business. I thought this would be a way to earn additional income, to obtain financial freedom to be able to make sure I could do everything possible to support my mother in law who I love, if necessary. I had some immediate success, which turned into failure, but this was an, ultimate breakthrough for me.

Has anybody ever stated to you. “WHY ARE YOU SO NEGATIVE”?

These are the words that were said to me that I embraced in my head. I knew at that moment the fearful, non confident, stressed women needed a change to take place in her life but I did not know how. Through my corporate job, my work, I had learned an important lesson, growth could take place when you learn to trust someone, work hard and embrace change. I went to a meeting, heard the women leaders of Arbonne speak.

I could hear the passion through their words, their confident voices, and how important personal development is. I decided negativity and stress had to go as I desired to build an empire but I had no idea how.

I explored the internet, and I was exposed to networking as an Arbonne consultant as it was impossible to get into a networking group as a representative in the financial field which I was knowledgeable and excelled at. Talking for 60 seconds felt like 6 hours.

I didn’t have a clue of how to network in person, after sitting in front of a stock market computer screen for over 25 years. I found a place over the internet, networking by telephone, a community of people who positive attitude shined through the telephone.

I was excited, 1000 one-on-one conversations, learning, meeting people and building relationships. My aha moment occurred, I went out of my comfort zone, and tried something new. I chose to hire a coach from an 8 minute conversation, having no idea what I was getting into. Have you all have heard the saying, When the student is ready (Myself), the teacher appears (My coach)?

The realization that I needed to change, a commitment to my own personal growth would begin.

The biggest gift that I received from coaching was having a person who communicated with me, had patience, and held me accountable. I was inspired to grow, get out of my comfort zone, realizing there is more to life than fearing the world and holding everything bottled up inside. Another reminder, life is short, live life to the fullest. We do not know what tomorrow will bring.

The process began, changing my words, attitude, and raising my level of awareness. I would never give up on myself, no matter how much pain I felt, as I would cut, shape, mold, sand and polish and find my inner voice from within.

My coach suggested opening up an account on Twitter, I followed her, and my circle of influence expanded and another shift would take place. I blossomed into a passionate networker, connector of others over the internet through social media. During the process I found a leader in a different network marketing business, was intrigued by a trainer on Twitter, found a mentor to give me an internet presence that inspired me and built a website. She believed in me more than I believed in myself.

Life became very busy, the transformation process began. I became a blogger, I learned self-care was necessary and finding sprit would take care of my fears. A huge challenge was ahead, through weight loss, being committed with small baby steps each day toward a goal, taking action. I was held accountable to my actions,

I added journaling, and I let go the pain of the past, the limiting beliefs, I changed my words from of the I cant’s, I won’t, I fear, etc. In addition, from not being able to walk a ½ block, remembering the 14 months of physical therapy from a broken ankle in the 90’s, gaining 68 pounds during my pregnancy, a blood clot in the other leg after the birth of my daughter.

An experienced weight loss champion I became, exercise empowered me, I have lost 56 pounds since September 09.

This has given me the confidence to realize I can do anything I set my mind to. SO CAN YOU!

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Four years ago I realized change was a must

If I didn’t do something different, life could have turned into a bust

The stock market a huge part of my life, responsible for others money,

would have my body full of stress,

Massage to the rescue, I would feel better when my therapist, friend

, Diana Schappert, would come to my address.

My family and friends I knew you were there,

I understand my change was a challenge, but I knew you care

Successful I was, although unhealthy, unsure and stuck

Through networking on the internet I found a Diamond Coach,

Kimyon Zari who was worth every buck

I decided to go with her on the Diamond Path

I would hang out in the Diamond Mine on blog talk Radio

and I would learn and laugh

Full of fear, no care for myself, I asked Kimyon, how do you get rid of fear?

With a compassionate voice, she responded find sprit, and it will all disappear.

My circle of influence grew, personal development, spirit and social media was in

Soap operas on TV, worry, and fear would be less, while the

telephone, computer, and homework would begin.

An inspiring new leader Deb Mullen I would find

I was surprised someone would share her wisdom with me and be so kind

I would tweet and retweet, on Twitter, put smiles on people’s faces

All of a sudden I would discover new people and new places.

Finding a mentor De Harris, who was compassionate, confident

and believed in me, A web page was designed,

Bonnie Gortler.com, the Optiongirl, a blogger was to be

Challenges were there, as I learned to write

Work was to be done, but a challenge to stay up late at night.

I was intrigued by Gena Livings a trainer on twitter whose words inspired me

A free trial for a week, I would be worthy to take a chance on my well being to see

Inspired Wellness, a new program for health,

I would become skilled at, like I am with wealth.

Their guidance, compassion, and support was there for me as I was held

accountable stretching, shedding, and feeling the pain while wearing a mask

I would press on with the process, which was no simple task.

More understanding and growth to be attained, it would get harder,

but no quit inside, with my feeling of desire.

Each call with my coaches would bring out the fire

I completed my first weight loss program and I was left to fly on my own

With doubt how much I had grown, I was grateful to be recommended to Pat Barone

My body was getting smaller, flexible, and stronger

My emotions would bounce high and low; learning how to

handle them took a little longer.

Time patience and practice was the cure

Until one day I would feel I could soar

New clothes, new attitude, new mindset as my values would shine

And I would soon learn all would be fine

I was so surprised there could be someone else to trust as time had passed

Sheri Kaye Hoff came into my life; I would take action, be bold, brave,

and daring and have a blast.

Journaling, exercising, studying personal development was my routine

Being grateful, thankful I would feel like a queen

Thank you to everybody that has inspired me,

it’s been amazing to be on a journey with people like you

My message to all, it’s never too late, never give up on yourself,

I have created change and believe YOU CAN TOO

Live life to the fullest, believe in yourself, persevere, smile,

and care It will work out so don’t you despair

Joy, success, happiness is a choice

It comes from within, so listen to your voice.

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BONNIE GORTLER - THE OPTIONGIRL INTERVIEW ON WORD OF MOM

Last week I had the opportunity to be a guest on Blog talk Radio hosted by Dori DeCarlo of Word of Mom and share a little about myself in a one hour interview. I was wondering if I would like being a guest as much as I enjoy being in the chat rooms of my friend’s radio shows. I thought speaking for an hour was a long time, and I pondered what the experience would be like. I’ve spoken before but this time speaking was much easier. So much so that I can say it was absolutely fabulous! After the first 5 minutes I felt comfortable and quite relaxed which was different from doing my presentation at my WOW Network speaking engagement in Atlanta when I introduced my colleague and also different than when I presented about my ebook ‘Twitter Magic’ in front of a local networking group in New York. Surprisingly, this interview went by real fast as I relaxed and shared the story of how I started working in the investment field 28 years ago and I am still there today. Dori also allowed me the opportunity to discuss my life as an entrepreneur and expand one work life balance. We had a great time!

When you step out of your comfort zone and you make breakthroughs there is no turning back, the fear is gone. These experiences in the past 6 weeks were great and it was a wonderful feeling to have the support of my friends as I enjoyed the interview process. Dori would ask me questions and the answers came out of my mouth with little or no effort. What a great feeling! I enjoyed my Blog Talk experience and know that I can and will do it again in the future.

Working in the investment field serving clients has taught me so much. Building relationships, networking, and exploring the world on Twitter has given me new friendships with people all around the world (a gift that I will always treasure). It is, however, within these past few weeks that everything has been brought full circle since reaching my goal of public speaking and achieving my weight loss goal of 45 pounds. All I can do is smile. What a way to end 2010.

Take a listen to the interview above and learn more about my journey. Dori has a great show and makes it even more interesting by the callers and guests that appear each week. So mark it as one of your favorites. We had a great time! I’d love to hear your story and comments. So make sure to leave your comments below. Create an excellent week! ~Bonnie

Make a change, step out of the box and explore the wave of the future by downloading my first e book ‘Twitter Magic”. Use it as a guide you when you use Twitter. Tell a friend and make sure to let me know what you think of ‘Twitter Magic’.

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Announcement: Featured Guest Speaker, Bonnie Gortler for The BBCQLI

Announcement: Business Breakfast Club of Queens and Long Island (BBCQLI) Networking Meeting

Thursday, December 2, 2010 at 7 a.m.

Omega Diner
Lakeville Road
New Hyde Park, NY 11040

Bonnie Gortler, The Option Girl

On December 2 2010, I was asked to be a feature guest for The BBCQLI to talk about my favorite social media place on the internet - Twitter.

The Business Breakfast Club of Queens and Long Island (BBCQLI) was the first in person networking group that I was exposed to. I learned the importance of how networking leads to building long lasting relationships and become the foundation to your business. My first presentation was as a new Arbonne independent consultant while I was balancing my new role as an entrepreneur with being a corporate professional. The members were kind, understanding, and a great group of business leaders who would gather each week to share their business experience, referrals and opportunities with one other for breakfast each Thursday at 7AM.

I am looking forward to seeing them again to share my Twitter expertise and to inspire the members to branch out into the world of social media.

Download your copy at of my first e book, ‘Twitter Magic‘ and enjoy the magical experience of exploring the benefits of Twitter.

Make sure to also come join us Thursday, December 2 at 7AM too. Please bring your business cards to exchange with the members of BBCQLI while having some great fun networking while learning about Twitter Magic. I can hardly wait to meet you and I’ll see you there! Create an excellent day! Bonnie

‘Twitter Magic’ is an informative straightforward guide packed with great tips that will allow you to make friends, build lifelong connections, and grow your business. Follow me at www.twitter.com/optiongirl.

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