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Life is filled with twists and turns. Taking small actions toward what you want to achieve can create a new perspective on how you go about achieving your hopes, dreams, and aspirations. Have you or someone you’ve known ever challenged you to create goals beyond what you had imagined you could do? I know I have, and it’s made all the difference in my life! Goal setting is not rocket science but why go about it the same way over and over again? One of the best approaches I’m learning to help you succeed is to focus on improving your weaknesses so they become your strengths. You can do this by putting a plan in place that will keep things fresh and will help you feel renewed. Start by deciding that during this process of growth you are going to have fun, choose to be happy and do what your heart wants you to do. Life is short and can pass us by pretty fast so you want to take care of yourself and not spend too much time sweating the small stuff.

If you find yourself needing to pull yourself out of a funk, you can do so by changing your mindset and by shifting the language you use. It all starts with you accepting things for what they are.  Seeing life with all its ups and downs allows you to make better decisions about your plan of action. This small exercise will unlock your inner peace and is a great way to center your thoughts so you can begin finding the answers that will turn your weaknesses into new strengths, and also allow you to enjoy each day. 

When I started on my well-being journey I never imagined what an impact a change in perspective could be. The power to believe, added with simple consistent action steps has lead me to discover new strengths which had been hidden from my view.  The writing was never my strong point, math was. I didn’t even have to write a business letter in my corporate job, and my boss would put together the proposals to prospective clients so I didn’t get much practice. I do remember as a child that I did love writing letters to my teachers, friends, and family thanking them for their love and support.

As I grew life changed, I found other interests, that didn’t include writing.  A breakthrough appeared when one of my coaches gave me the assignment to write a poem. I wrote back to her expressing my apprehension with a big “Are You Kidding Me?” She wrote back and said, no she was not kidding and that I could do it. Yikes! I remember the fear and worry that filled my spirit. It was crazy that my coach had more belief I could write a poem than I did in myself. Instead of saying “I can’t” (one of my favorite answers before I started coaching), I dug deep and found the courage to move beyond my comfort zone and I started to write.  

Little did I know how much fun the process would be. It has opened up a new set of possibilities both personally and professionally. I learned when you find the courage to do something and continue to do it you gain a sense of confidence that spills over into all areas of your life. When I grow hesitant about trying something beyond my comfort zone, I do my best to remember back how fear used to fill me and how the flood of overwhelm would be so strong it would leave me paralyzed. Then I remind myself how I overcame all of that by finding the courage within myself to push through. This is something that has helped me time and time again. We all need a bit of encouragement and to help you make the shift take a moment and read my poem The Power of Inner Peace is Within Reach. My hope is you will realize all you can accomplish by changing your old way of thinking so you will explore new opportunities.

Putting myself out there in such a way was quite a challenge, especially since I knew that writing was not a strength I possessed. It was five years ago when I wrote that poem and had the courage to share on my blog. It taught me a valuable lesson in trusting myself and in the process of cultivating my untapped abilities. It goes to show you the power of how one thing can lead into another so that you can grow into who you are meant to be. Which, by the way, later on, another seed was planted by my mentor, when she said to me “you have a book in you.”  What? Writing a poem was such stretch that I laughed at the idea of writing a book. It was only with the support of my coach and working on having a positive mindset that I was able to discover that there really was a book in me when I published “Journey to Wealth”.  It took time and plenty of revisions but I’m proud to say it’s published and available on Amazon. Who knew? I didn’t, that’s for sure! Don’t doubt yourself. Your thoughts and perspective make a huge difference in what you do, Unlock the strength inside of you and take the steps needed so you can move forward today with a healthy outlook. 

How to Turn Your Weaknesses into Strengths

  1. Realize the impact of attitude on life. Raise your awareness to what your weakness might be and accept them, instead of going to the place of frustration.
  2. Ask someone you can trust for help that has done what you want to do.
  3. Start with doing one simple step. Practice to gain confidence and get better and better each day.
  4. Don’t take criticism or feedback personally. Not everyone is going to like what you do. Ask yourself what you can learn from the feedback that has been given to you.
  5. Change your thought process to think solutions. Focus on how to fix the problem, not on the obstacle. Don’t stay in a place of anger and keep focusing on what is negative, focus on what is positive
  6. Believe in Yourself. You are ready for unexpected challenges that arise. Think back to those challenges you already have handled in your life.
  7. Learn from your past mistakes, don’t beat yourself up, press on.

Start today by doing something you have never done before. The time has come for you to break through your challenges and gain a new perspective that will empower your new way of thinking. Do this by creating a plan and make it simple enough for you to follow. Revise as needed so you will stick with it. When you put in the effort to master a new skill, you will become excited again. The energy and revitalization you feel inside as you chart a new course in your life will become the foundation that will enable you to do even more. An opportunity exists at every turn. Take advantage of it. Create change in your life with small actions steps that move you closer to increased wealth and well-being. Living inside your comfort zone is not a good option if you want to find the fulfilled happiness you deserve. When you start to turn your weaknesses into strengths there are brighter days ahead so you can experience all richness life has to offer. 

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To your health, wealth, and happiness,

Bonnie 

The Inspired Wealth & Well Coach 

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As a big believer of personal development it is never far from my thoughts on developing ways to help make life better and to touch the lives of others. Today I’m sharing with you a video that not only offers inspiration but also gives hope to anyone who ever thought ‘I just can’t anymore’. Many of us have experienced difficulties that seem to keep us from moving ahead with our goals or desires. If you ever doubt yourself or need to lift your spirits  then watch this video and allow it to help you get over the negative thoughts that keep you from understanding and believing that ALL is possible!

Each of us have challenges however you have the power to do something about it.

Let me know what you think by posting a comment below.

To your health, wealth and happiness,

Bonnie

 

 

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Enjoy each day.  Listen to this beautiful song as ponder your thoughts. Get in a routine to raise your awareness.  Stop, be still,and take notice of what’s around you.  Do your best not to let yourself focus on the past that doesn’t serve you anymore. Also don’t think about the future,this will make you worry even more. Instead, see what is positive that makes you happy.

Be grateful for the people that are in your life today, Surround yourself with those who are have a positive attitude and are uplifting. Show your appreciation  to them.

Be the one who is remembered for your kindness and genuine heart.

Today say thank you, I appreciate you!

Create an excellent week ~ Bonnie Gortler

 

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Take the time to think about what you could achieve today if you decided to be brave. These are just a few questions to ponder. What has been burning inside of you just waiting to come out? Ask yourself what is holding you back from going after your dreams?  Decide you are going to take a few minutes  now to do one important goal on your list that you have been avoiding. Choose something that would be fun and you love.

YOU can do anything you set your mind to.  Even if you have feel some fear, the courage is within you. Decide to make it a point every day to take one action step  to what your heart desires.  Never give up on your dreams! Believe in You… I certainly do!

Create an excellent week ~Bonnie

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It’s time to visualize your success, have positive thoughts and be who you desire to be.  Have you asked the question where will you be five years from now? Please don’t ever let anybody tell you that YOU can’t do something. You can do anything you set your mind to. A great reminder to myself too!

Realize failure is part of success and understand mistakes will happen. To be a winner you don’t want to be overly scared to lose. This is a hard lesson to have to learn and I’m still grasping this concept as well. Decide now YOU will feel great when you go out of your comfort zone. Be gentle with yourself. Know you will rise to the occasion and successfully meet the challenge. Go for it, and act on your dreams! Keep your dreams alive and dream big.

Take a small step forward each day and share your wisdom with others. Be kind to yourself.  You don’t need to know all your answers in advance. Focus on what you desire just as if it’s yours NOW! Be YOU!  Be the best and don’t settle for less.

Begin today by surrounding yourself with others who support you and are positive and avoid the people who give off negative energy and put you down.

Once you find the courage to begin, you’ll find the courage to succeed.  If you do happen to fail, pick yourself up and keep trying. Choose the path to move forward, no matter what other people think. What are your thinking about? Don’t quit. Choose to persevere! 

Listen to your heart. YOU ARE A TRUE SUCCESS!


 

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Conquering fear and overcoming anxiety can mean less stress with life’s challenges. Let go of your fear and begin to reduce the stress in your life so your body, mind, and spirit can experience the FEELing of simply FEELing good.

Learn to walk through your fear, don’t hold on and continue to be stuck. You can make a change to gain clarity by releasing the past. It’s up to you to choose to be happy, so start with a new beginning and enjoy life to the fullest.

Do something for you today by forgiving and accepting yourself for who you are. Let go of your old beliefs and remember to always dream big as you move forward in creating an excellent week. ~Bonnie

 

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Manage your emotions, don’t let emotions manage you. Emotions are powerful and build momentum so use them to your advantage. Emotions are our friends and should always be listened to for they hold the key to our soul. There are times we can feel fragile with so many obstacles and challenges that come our way. You must  decide to push through no matter how it gets. The power to overcome is within YOU! Dig deep, learn the lesson, and find the positive from the challenge. When you do you find that you are a much stronger person.

Practice positive self talk and be aware of your words you speak to yourself. This was a tremendous lesson for me to learn because of the effect words can have on you and your life. For example, when I say the phrase “Easier said than done”; my coach would say “EASIER DONE THAN SAID”.  Now sit back, be still and think about how to respond to your emotions instead of reacting to them. After you do this simple exercise you will begin to feel the difference and have placed yourself on trek to living a better life. The time has arrived for you to allow the power of words to move you closer to all that you dream of and desire. 

If you feel stuck, desire a change or are holding on to pain then consider speaking with a coach. There is no better gift to give yourself than investing in the best that you could be.  Share your thoughts and any stories of how words have affected your life as you create an excellent week. ~Bonnie

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Did you get caught in the 2008 stock market meltdown? I have friends and family who have suffered losses that have been close to almost impossible to recoup. Look around and you will discover countless Americans finding it difficult to regroup after such a devastating loss and now realize that there just may not be enough income for retirement and a result are having, like many, to delay their retirement because the numbers don’t support their planned early to mid 60’s retirement plan.

You may be too young now, but I bet you know someone who is living this very scenario and are now finding that working hard, saving and planning just wasn’t enough. This dose of reality can be devistating if this is you or someone you love but did you know that working longer has a variety of benefits as well? All it takes is making a lifestyle change now and putting a plan in place that will pay dividends moving forward.  With the tips I share below you feel confident that you have full control in navigating the waters ahead while keeping your dreams and lifestyle afloat through the calm or rough seas.

5 Good Reasons to Delay Your Retirement:

More time to save for your future.  The years before you retire can be some of the best years to save because you’ll earn more than you did earlier in your career.  Once children become financially independent, parent’s expenses are less and are in position to increase their retirement savings.

Fewer retirement years to fund your investment If you monitor your health and well being you will live longer and can expect to have 20 or even 30 years in retirement. If you put off retirement there will be fewer years without income from work so you will not have to withdraw money. It is a good idea if you look for a part-time job that you are passionate about in retirement that can allow you to draw down your savings at a slower rate

Delay taxes as long as you can.  Withdrawals from traditional 401(k)s generally become required after age 70½.  For more details visit wikopedia.com @ http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/401k

Receive Higher Social Security checks. After you apply for Social Security, you will receive a monthly check for the rest of your life.  The size of that check is depends on how much you’ve paid into the system and when you start taking it. The longer you are able to wait, the higher your monthly benefits will be. Your Social Security payments that you are entitled to will increase for each year you delay signing up between ages 62 and 70. If you would like more information here is a guide from AARP that can help you see why most people should wait as long as possible to claim Social Security and some people should claim earlier. Calculate your retirement benefit here.

Health Benefits. Workers are not able to sign up for Medicare until age 65. Finding individual health-insurance coverage that is affordable if you qualify is quite a challenge. It can be extremely difficult for people who lose group coverage that was provided by an employer. Keeping your job or having a part-time job with benefits is the most cost-effective way to find health insurance before age 65.

Addtional thoughts:

  • feelings of peaceYou literally have more money in your pocket. This is because you need less money for current expenses compared to when you were supporting your children or paying off your house.
  • No need to work so hard any more. If you can find a part-time job, three days a week or six months a year  doing something completely different you can be happier. If you put in 20 hours per week, delaying retirement doesn’t sound so bad.
  • More time for you. Be active, learn and do new things.  Be bold, brave and daring while having fun and enjoying the steps and stages experienced during this phase in life. It will help you feel young and reborn.
  • Keep yourself moving and your mind in tip top shape. Commit to work work only a few days a week to stimulate your mind and empowered in doing what your heart is calling you do. If possible, it is ideal that your new vocation be more than the paycheck. It should be something you have longed to do and learn more about. When this is the case money becomes secondary.
  • Use your new found freedom to give something back. If you would rather not work at a job then use your wisdom, talent and skills helping others grow and develop into their own full potential. You’ve spent years honing you craft. Perhaps it’s time to leave a life legacy for your children to pass on to the next generation through leading by example. This will pay higher dividend than any money investment.

Hopefully you’re ready to give some thought to the idea of delaying your own retirement. There are so many good reasons to still be in the game. Plan now to work in what you love until you can work no more. It will keep you engaged, young and vibrant. For now, feel free to download a guide to health wellness which was written to help you live a longer life, find balance and live life to the fullest. Be inspired and motivated to delay your retirement. You will find that age is only a number and that your own life will fulfill you like never before.


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Bonnie Gortler (@optiongirl) is a successful stock market guru who is passionate about teaching others about social media, weight loss and wealth. Over her 30-year corporate career, she has been instrumental in managing multi-million dollar client portfolios within a top rated investment firm. Bonnie is a uniquely multi-talented woman who believes that honesty, loyalty and perseverance are the keys to success. You will constantly find her displaying these beliefs due to her winning spirit and ‘You Can Do It’ attitude. Bonnie is a huge sports fan that has successfully lost over 70 pounds by applying the many lessons learned through her ongoing commitment toward personal growth and development while continually encouraging others to reach their goals & dreams. It is within her latest book project, “Journey to Wealth”, where Bonnie has made it her mission to help everyone learn the steps needed to gain sustainable wealth and personal prosperity. Order your copy of ”Journey to Wealth” today!

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Find your own voice to discover the inner confidence within you. Live your life the way you choose even though doing so can be challenging. Always stay positive and think of the wonderful qualities you posses as you continue keeping a grateful spirit about you.

Your attitude, through thoughts, and positive thinking will lead to a better experiences in your life. A one day at a time approach can bring you clarity instead of a feeling of overwhelm. Some things will work out without you having to do anything.  Be happy, think about what makes you happy, and do it. Don’t wait to enjoy your life. Take the best action for yourself, even when it’s scary despite what others may think.  Express yourself.  Know what you believe and don’t be afraid to express it. What matters to you and your life? What makes your shine? Be you, share, express your thoughts from your heart in the comments area below. Here’s to a more Powerful YOU!

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You can do anything you put your mind to. Look around. Entrepreneurs are creative and can empower you to do anything. You might have some turbulence along the way but from this you will create opportunities and achieve success beyond your dreams! ~Bonnie

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